Today one of my girl friends in my Airsoft Gun club was angry at me by shouting at me in public in the event of Youthfest after I answered, "I've told you that the flyer is empty." She didn't accept what I said. Then I saw that:
- Being old is a must, being wise a choice. Ought to, she could control her anger. She is too old to behave like that. In other hand, I understood that perhaps she was too exhausted as she had been working since 12pm till that tragedy happened around 8-9pm.
- Shouting in public is not pretty.
- Shouting in public is not elegant.
Then, what I learn from that case:
- I almost shouted back at her, but I realize that Peace and Conflict Resolution Program which I'm studying now doesn't teach me to do so. In other hand, I could exercise my skill controlling my anger and behaving in elegant way.
- Conflict manager or peace maker should be like Gandi. So, "I shouldn't be in anger easily."
- Shouting is A Violence.
Lets find your inner peace....
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